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All sex toys need to be cleaned before and after use and if swapped between partners. Every. Single. Time. Wash your toy with warm, clean water and soap. Alternatively, you can use a toy cleaning spray or wipe. Make sure that it's body-friendly and anti-bacterial. To keep things sexy and safe, we also recommend using a condom or dental dam over the toy when engaging in anal play with a partner. Follow our Step By Step Guide to Cleaning Your Toys. Your future self will thank you!

Besides the incredible pleasure possibilities, anal play is intimate, sensual, fun and exciting that ANYONE can try.

There are two types of anal play: external (massaging the outer rim of the anus) and internal (penetration by fingers, toys or penis). As a starting point ask yourself, what do feel comfortable exploring, either solo or with a partner. We stock some bangin' beginner-friendly butt plugs, beads and training kits to dip your toes (or should we say booty) into the wonderful world of anal play! P.S. If you are putting through an order for your first anal toy (exciting!), don't forget to throw in a tube of lube. This is ESSENTIAL in your anal play journey! Check out our blog on everything you need to know about anal play before getting started.

Butt plugs, dildos or massagers with a flared, wide base can be used for anal play. Alternatively, if you are using beads, make sure they have a retrieval ring at the base for you to hold. This is essential to avoid a trip to the emergency department!

I'm so pleased you asked! When in doubt, use more lube. It should be a slip-and-slide down there. Lube it up baby!

Anal play should be a comfortable experience for everyone involved, all you need is a little preparation, a space where you feel calm and relaxed and LOTS of lube. The ring of muscles around the anus can be quite tight, and trying to force something into those muscles without lube or foreplay can cause pain. To have a pleasurable anal play experience, we recommend going slowly, taking time to build arousal. Don’t try to force your way into the anus or push past the pain. It’s about the journey, not the destination! Check out our blog on everything you need to know about anal play before getting started.

No - this is a myth! The sphincter muscles around the anus act like any other muscle in the body. They contract and sometimes even tear (if they aren't used to being stretched) but heal and strengthen.

Yes, anal play can get messy but does it have to be? Not at all! After trying anal, most people are genuinely surprised by how little mess (if any) there was during play. If you're after a mess-free experience, I’d recommend emptying your bowels 30 minutes before you plan to have anal and use wipes before, during and after. If you are switching between anal and vaginal play either with a toy, penis or finger, wash and wipe thoroughly before switching holes. This will stop you or your partner from getting a pesky UTI.

Short answer: Yes. But this is VERY easily preventable. Whenever you are using a toy or penis for penetration, put a condom or dental dam over it to avoid spreading STI's. P.S. If you are switching between holes, make sure to change the condom or dental dam too!

All the anal plugs and massagers that are made out of 100% silicone and don't require charging are dishwasher friendly so you can pop them in the dishwasher next to your pots and pans overnight, ready for that morning sesh!

Yes! All our orders are sent in plain parcel packaging (think of the most basic parcel you can imagine) without any logos or branded labels. Our discreet packaging is especially perfect if you live with housemates, family or snoopy neighbours (we see you, Karen) so dw babe - they won’t blink an eye when your order is delivered.

Yes! We have a collection of vibrating anal sex toys including plugs and beads so you can choose your own adventure.

Welcome babe! You're about to embark on a journey of self-discovery and pleasure possibilities (exciting!). We'd recommend trying one of the anal training kits to start. These typically include three butt plugs of varying sizes to slowly and gradually increase the dilation of the anus over time as you become more comfortable. Keep in mind, anal play is a marathon, not a sprint. This should be pleasurable, not painful! Check out our blog on everything you need to know about anal play before getting started.